Today I got to talk to my wonderful husband! It was pretty awesome, thank goodness I took my laptop to school with me because if not I would of missed the opportunity to chat. Anyways, my husband has a friend he considers to be his "best friend" and is going to be his "Best Man" for the wedding. I personally dont care for the guy, I never liked him as a person and quite frankly I am not a fan and don't think i ever will be. He has done some shady things in the past that has made my husband upset but yet my husband still considers him his "best friend". Whatever right? What can I do about it...nothing but to voice my opinion and even then its like i am talking to air. So i dont say anything anymore. A couple of months ago I messaged his "best friend" asking him for his address because i was sending out save the dates for the wedding. I wrote this nice message asking how he was and i hope he is doing well and what not, I was being very professional. In return all i wanted was a "hey thanks here is my address, how your doing well too" WRONG! All i got was a message back with the address. Not a thank you, or a hey...hi or anything just the damn address. Well that pissed me off because i was being nice. The least he can do was " hi here my is address. have a good day." Nope! So now since my husband is coming home soon, my sister and I are having a welcome home bbq for my husband and I thought I would invite his "best friend" and some of his other friends who are not in the Corps. I sent him a message and let him know when this welcome home bbq was and all the details. Yet i never got a response back from him saying thank you, i hope to be there. Nothing yet again. Throughout deployment my husband always asked hey have you talked to "my best friend" ..."has he said anything" ....I havent got a letter from him or anything....no emails back... nothing". I know if my best friend was deployed i would write letters, send a care package, send a reply email. I know he is a guy but that dont mean he cant reply to an email. Hell, when my brother was deployed his best friend send him care packages and 3 letters telling him that he supports him and that he cant wait until he comes home so they can drink together. So i dont understand why my husband "best friend" never cared or asked how deployment was going or anything. Well guess what??? Today i get a message from him asking me this ...exact quote" Hey so when is ____suppose to be back? I wanted to throw my phone across the room when i saw it. Oh now that he knows my husband is coming home and that he will be local, they can hang out and do guy stuff....he wants to know the exact date of when he is coming home! NO! You dont get to know when he is coming home and you dont get to be there at the parade deck to welcome him home. Where the hell have you been for the past 8 months while he has been in hell and could of used some moral support from his own best friend! Obviously not there, so you dont get to be there now! Your 8 months to damn late! <<--- i wish i could have said all of this in a message but i didnt .....for my husband's sake. This gets under my skin so much and i wish i could tell him but because he is my husband's "best friend" I have to keep the peace. (GRR!) I may be overreacting but this is how i feel about this situation and i have no other way of getting it out than by blogging. I sure hope his "best friend" shows up to the bbq and if he doesn't that will show my husband that his so called "best friend" isn't worth it. (I kinda hope he doesnt show up too, but then again my husband will feel let down and i dont want him to feel that way either) Its a lose/lose situation.
Until next time ♥
